by opie301 » Mon May 19, 2008 7:18 pm
That sucks, Trev. I hope you're doing alright with everything.
The thing with Al's position is that I've been exactly in that position before. You get all worked up, and you begin to feel a bit righteous, but you know for sure that you are right and the other person is wrong. So you throw it all out there, feeling confident that they're not coming back... and then they do. And suddenly you're not so sure that you were as right as you thought you were. And then all that righteous anger drains away and you're stuck with a lame apology on your tongue. The thing you gotta do... is pick yourself up, and try again. Maybe your anger isn't as righteous as it was, but there was anger there. And it was caused be something. And you need to air that stuff out or else it festers.
Whew... it's like a confessional here.
That sucks, Trev. I hope you're doing alright with everything.
The thing with Al's position is that I've been exactly in that position before. You get all worked up, and you begin to feel a bit righteous, but you know for sure that you are right and the other person is wrong. So you throw it all out there, feeling confident that they're not coming back... and then they do. And suddenly you're not so sure that you were as right as you thought you were. And then all that righteous anger drains away and you're stuck with a lame apology on your tongue. The thing you gotta do... is pick yourself up, and try again. Maybe your anger isn't as righteous as it was, but there was anger there. And it was caused be something. And you need to air that stuff out or else it festers.
Whew... it's like a confessional here.